26.11.12 ISM Recycle Day with Tzu Chi

Another good Sunday to have activity

last Sunday, i attended my cousin's wedding.. and for this week, i had recycle activity at hing hwa primary school with tzu chi. oh well, another Sunday that i have to wake up early.. reached school around 8 something and started to lift the recyclable things up to the lorries! we were so lucky to have Wan Xin's dad and Chu Chu's dad to help out in this activity.. without their lorries, we would not get out things done earlier!! :D oh well, my position is to arrange the things in the lorries... so that we could have more spaces to fit all the boxes in! and we were the last batch to reach Hing Hwa! got the chance to take photos with these people!! felt so excited to sit behind the truck with them!! haha we laughed! we shouted! and we wished not to reach our destination! haha enjoyed the moment sitting behind! :P 

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so after finished our mission, Mr Kow decided to treat us for lunch at McD!! woohooo.... i think there were 30 of us.. and we ate up RM396.10 =.=!! why? almost all of us ordered DOUBLE-sized burger!! we even thought of to order Mc Flurry!! Luckily we didn't make it.. if not ah... i think Mr Kow will broke instantaneously! Haha sincerely thanks him once again! No holiday = Got McD... haha we actually requested for holiday but failed! :p

all of us without our boss, Mr Moo Moo(Kow)

Overall, this activity bonded (part of) the L6S and L6A together and we got to know each other more... :)  

your words, my feelings!

1.  =Do not simply praise one's child(ren)=
incident happened:
there was someone told my mum that: 你的女儿都长大了可以帮你做家务!!/你女儿很厉害!会读书又能帮你做家务！
comment:
hey aunty uncle!! we are not clever!  we are not obedient!!! although we are girls but we don't like to do house work!!! so please don't praise us la!! i beg you! we are not that good! we are lazy!! stop praising us with this stupid things! you are just satirizing her and we will end out get scolded by mum only! you praise us,  we get scolded! i dun like it and i hate it, personally!


2.  =As parents, never grumble to your child(ren) about your financial problem=
incident happened: 
mum kept on mentioning that she have no enough money for ME to go anywhere else to study [the furthest you can go is WEST MALAYSIA-->UTAR ONLY] since J1, although i have no idea what to study.. but  i have planned to study abroad.. to Australia... to UK...
comment:
i always dream of it but i know it will not befall on me! and now, my sis and I are about to further our studies at West Malaysia.and yea... i know it will cost a lot! i start not to consider UK blablablabla... so what if i study one of the UK universities in Malaysia(NOTTINGHAM)? annoying stuff will come across me.. lalalalala~ money money money!! study study study!! so i have made a conclusion, for my own. "Get everything ready[(cost for study, cost for food, cost for anything....), i mean... prepare the everything in EXCESS] before you plan to have children" dun keep on telling your children that you have no money.. what can they do to help you? not continue to study but find a job now? help you to earn money? i duno =.= so maybe it's my problem..

4.  =As parents, do not simply scold your childf(ren) or accused them!=
incident happened:
sometimes when i have really done my part, my mum will scold me that i didn't do my work blablabla.. ngam ngam ngam... scold scold scold... non-stop! when i told her i had finished earlier, she would just say: you should do more!! not only doing this... so i was thinking, when can i stop doing this kind of stuff... i really dun like to do that but i do it, you will never ever praise me or whatever... you will continue to ngam... this is waht we said: 鸡蛋里挑骨头/“沿尖”(hakka slang)
comment:
think before you scold! never feel HARD to praise someone! you won't get hurt if you give compliment to someone else!

5.  =As an adult, never say bad words of the child(ren)'s parents in front of them=
incident happened:
my aunt kept complaining that my dad always went fishing and didnt help my mum blablablablabla... all i can do at that moment was to keep my ears shut!! i hate people say my dad!! you have no the right to criticise him!
comment:
you will spoil the image of the parents in front of their child(ren). They are born to love their parents, not to think how bad are their parents. So, don't give negative comments about their dad and mum!!! never, ever! coz you will definitely hurt them, 100%!! so the same thing, think before you talk!!!